Dining etiquette is similar to doing chores, no one applauds you when they’re done but the one time you don’t, everyone notices. With more interviews being conducted over meals, that single dinner could seal the deal or ruin your chances of getting your dream job.

Unfortunately most schools don’t teach this important skill but don’t worry, The Millenial News has got your back.

Here are dining etiquette rules to take note of before attending a business dinner.


Punctuality and Greetings



Being late for the dinner gives a negative impression about you. The host will have sent you the details such as venue and time beforehand,so leave home at least 30 minutes before.
However, if something untoward happens like heavy traffic, call and inform them you’ll be running late.

As soon as you get to your table, greet the host with a firm handshake before proceeding to sit across them. Avoid sitting on the adjacent chair unless they request you to do so.

Incase you arrive before the host, be courteous and leave them the best seat (yes, the one with the best view). Take the sit directly opposite theirs.


Before the meal


Below is an image showing various cutlery pieces. Feel free to save and familiarise yourself with it before the big meal.



Napkin
Once you sit down, fold the napkin and place it on your lap with the corners facing towards you. Keep it on your lap throughout the meal. If you need to visit the washroom, gently stand up and place the napkin on your seat. This shows the waiters that you’ll be back hence they won’t clear your plate.


How and What to Order
When the host is paying, it might be tempting to order the most expensive and exortic meal. Don’t make this mistake. Let them pick out their meal and you can either order the same or a meal within the same price range.

One more thing, if you’ve never used chopsticks, this isn’t the time to experiment. You should also avoid messy food such as spaghetti that might make you mess up your outfit. Better safe than sorry right?


During the meal
Let’s skip to the good part, the food. At this point you’re not as tensed as you were and you start to relax. So what now?




Know when to dig in
If your food arrives first, don’t rush in to start. Instead wait for the host to also be served. Proceed once they start eating.
Small talk
Most likely you’ll be making conversation throughout dinner. They’ll ask about your previous work experiences, why you’d be a good fit etc.
Stuffing your mouth will have them waiting for ages for an answer. Take small bites that willl enable you to swallow quickly and respond to the questions.






After the meal



Toasting
Most of the time, a toast symbolizes a happy ceremony and in this case you’ll have gotten the job. When toasting, hold the glass firmly on your left hand and give a firm handshake with your right hand.
Don’t fil up your glass to avoid spillage, half or quarter is a good amount.


Thank them.
The evening has come to an end. Congrats on getting the job. Let the host know how appreciative you are and that both the evening and the meal was lovely. Let the host leave first then leave. Best of luck!